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The following
letter was written by Ora Shain Duggins on April 23, 1930, to her
sister Rhea Shain Tinkle. In the letter, Ora describes the
circumstances surrounding the death of her and Rhea's sister,
Nola May Shain Kebbell. Nola had recently given birth to Mary Jane
Kebbell, and shortly after the birth, Nola took ill. Her
sickness persisted and she eventually passed away on April 17, 1930.
My great
aunt, Grace Kebbell Bratcher, has the original of the letter and let
me scan it during August, 2008. What is set out below are
relatively low-resolution copies of my scans, along with my edited
version of the content. I have added some punctuation, and words
in italics are changes I made to ease the reading. (E.g., I
changed rec'd to received and Dr to the doctor.) |
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Kokomo, April 23.
Dear Rhea,
I have just
received your letter. Glad
to hear from
you once more.
Will try to
answer it, amid
my tears.
Oh, Dear Sister, How my
heart is
breaking, seems as though
I just can't
recuperate, over our
loss.
I wish you were here this
week. We
could be company for
each other.
Dear Nola,
taken down with what they
called Flu,
and then double pneumonia.
Was almost
what you'd call un-
conscious
from the start. So much
like Father,
her mind seemed to come
and go.
She paid no attention to the
Little baby
or other children. When
we'd take
the baby to her bed, it would
laugh & then
cry, then laugh & cry
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Second,
again.
She would cry also, but say nothing.
She wouldn't
try to talk. Only said
a few words
the whole week I was there.
Seemed so
hard for her to swallow, & the doctor
said her
throat was cracked open
from intense
fever. She was broke
out 3 days
before she left with
something
just like measles (all over
her).
The doctor called it blood poison. Oh
how it
nettled her. We just had to
hold her
hands to keep her from
digging it.
The day before she left
she was so
bad, and suffering such
agony.
The doctor came & administered
food (butter
milk, eggnog and broth)
through a
tube into her for strength.
Forced it
through her mouth and
also through
her nose. Oh my such
suffering I
never saw and groaned
every
breath. It was just torment |
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Third
to rouse her
for nourishment, but
he had hopes
of the strength from
it helping
her. She was so low all day
Wednesday
and that night, & breathed so hard
and her
moans could be heard all
through the
house. So about 5 a.m. I
laid down,
but was awakened by
Hildred
crying about 6 to come quick
that Nola
was dying. So she drawed
her last
here in this world of trouble
about 7 a.m.
Ma, Rut, me, Arnel & Hildred
were by her
bedside. She was calmed from
her [groanings]
a short time before the
end, and it
came as though she was
sleeping
through deep breathing.
A few hard
breaths and then the
last one
failed to catch again.
I wish so
much for her to say
something &
tried to get her to, but
she was
too weak and near gone
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Fourth
to answer.
Olla & Ada had left about
daylight.
He hated so bad that he left,
but he
thought he could catch a little
sleep, but
too late. Soon after her departure
the house
was filled with good help and
she was
sweetly dressed and laid out
by Mariah
Shain, Alice Dewees, Ray Shaw,
Ethel
Wilson, Coara Doolin, Mrs. Woosley
and several
others.
Tommie*
suggested Ora B. Olla, Arvil &
myself to go
to Caneyville for the burial
outfit.
We went in Olla's car & Lan K.
and I.O.
Young drove the wagon out
for the
clothes & casket. We picked a
pretty all
white casket and her dress
was white
flat crepe, with Soisette* slip
and white
silk stockings. The clothes
were made
there at the house.
Eithel had
charge of them. It was
made with 3
big box pleats on front |
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Fifth
and trimmed
with rosettes of
blue & pink
baby ribbon and long
Streamers of
white baby ribbon. Made
like shroud
they showed us at
Bonds.
Immediately after her death
we called
Arthur Beula & Aunt Sarah.
All came on
the accommodation* that night.
Goldia and [Baliss]
also.
Verna got
the undertaker from Caneyville--
brought
Charley Strausburg out to
the
McCandles Graveyard for burial
at 1:30
Friday p.m. and offered to come
after our
corpse at 2:30 in his hearse.
So the body
was drawn by his horses
and hearse
to the Dewees graveyard
and buried
about 3:30 p.m. Friday.
Brother
Jerry Preached the funeral and
spoke so
sweetly of her life she had
lived and a
wonderful memory
of her.
He had no doubt but that she |
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Sixth
is sweetly
saved & resting in Glory.
Although
she had made no public
confession
of her Dear Savior, we feel
her sweet
disposition and cheerful
life to all
explained that part well.
The songs
were Some Sweet Day,
Home Sweet
Home & Nearer my God to Thee.
Script. 15th
Chapter of 1st Corinthians, beginning
about the 38th
verse.* She was 30 years, 4 months &
21 days old.
A large concourse of
friends &
relatives helped to see
her laid
away, and her death was
greatly
mourned by the whole
community.
The children cried lots
and wept
bitterly as the grave was
being
filled. Her grave was beautifully
covered with
yard flowers brought
by the
neighbors & homefolks.
Tommie is so
sad and took on lots.
Mrs.
Kebbell* will move in the house
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Seventh
with him and
take care
of the
little ones. Her and Ona are
so faithful
and shouldered most
of the
responsibility of the house
& children.
Ma could help so much
by sewing,
washing & such, but you
know her.*
I'm afraid she won't.
I wish I was
near to lend a
hand but too
far away.
Arvel talked
straight to Ma, in
regard.
Maybe it will a little.
Pa Boone is
very fine, and has
made Ma a
fine home & companion.
If she'll
only be satisfied. He told Rut
he could
call that home, and
I'm so glad.
Rut mourned her death
so terrible
hard, worse by far than
any.
He required the attention of
someone all
time. He said his
Mother is
gone.
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Eighth
He is going
to work at the sawmill
for Kale
Shain. Write him an encouraging
letter.
Everybody feels so sorry for him.
Rhea, she
seemed to have a slight
paralysis of
her Right side &
the
doctor feared all time that she would
develop
Spinal Meningitis, but not
that we know
of. She had got real
healthy
looking and fat since
the baby
came. Baby is little
but fat.
It is doing fine on
cows milk.
Mrs. Kebbell mothers it.
Nie, Rut
Arthur & me went down
Monday,
April 14th, and she didn't pay
much
attention to us, but next
morning she
spoke to us & said she
knew us, but
the doctor said she did not
have mind
enough to know
anything.
She suffered & cried
so much, it
was a relief to us
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Ninth
when the
Dear Lord relieved her of
it all.
And how Glad she must
have been.
We all came back
Sunday.
Olla brought Beula, Arvel,
Aunt Sarah &
me to Leitchfield to the
fast train
at 5:30 so we got home
by middle of
p.m. Sunday.
Kids were so
glad to see me, but
they all got
along so good. Ed said
Lois had a
time making the
boys keep
things clean. And Joan
wanted her
to go to her house but
she was
always too busy. Ha ha.
They had
lots to tell me and ain't
through yet.
Well, I must
close and finish
dinner.
Must iron after dinner.
Hope you are
feeling good and
Junior too.
I sent him a card
when I sent
yours. You can
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Tenth
pass this
letter to him if you
think he can
read it. I am
nervous &
don't write very good
anymore.
Write soon.
We are always
glad to hear
from you.
Love, your
Sister Ora.
P.S.
They all had lots of eggs
& baskets
for Easter, but no
new clothes.
Didn't need any.
Ed took them
out to the woods
Sunday, and
they enjoyed that.
Had their
lunch along.
Wouldn't you
like to see
them getting
ready. Ha ha.
Ora
Some of the
dress and slip. |
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A piece of the fabric from which Nola's relatives made
her slip. |
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A piece of the fabric from which Nola's relatives made
her burying dress. The mark in the middle is a rust stain from
the pin that held the swatch of dress fabric to the swatch of slip
fabric. |
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Return
Address:
Mrs. H E
Duggins
1127 N
Webster
Kokomo Ind.
Address:
Mrs. Rhea
Tinkle
Rockville
Ind
Postmark:
Kokomo, Ind.
Apr 23
4:30 P.M.
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*"Tommie" was my great grandfather,
Thomas Kebbell, Jr.
Nola May Shain Kebbell, the person
whose death is recounted in this letter, was his wife and my great
grandmother.
*"Soisette" was a tradename for
fine combed mercerized cotton in white, plain or prints. That
name was stamped on selvage. The fabric was used for dresses,
linings, curtains, pajamas, shirts, children's clothes.
*The "accommodation" is a reference to a passenger
train, one that usually ran after the "fast train" had run through for
the day.
*First Corinthians 15:38 - 58:
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But God giveth it a body as it hath
pleased him, and to every seed his own body. |
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All flesh is not the same flesh:
but there is one kind of flesh of men, another flesh of beasts,
another of fishes, and another of birds. |
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There are also celestial bodies,
and bodies terrestrial: but the glory of the celestial is one, and
the glory of the terrestrial is another. |
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There is one glory of the sun, and
another glory of the moon, and another glory of the stars: for one
star differeth from another star in glory. |
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So also is the resurrection of the
dead. It is sown in corruption; it is raised in incorruption:
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It is sown in dishonour; it is
raised in glory: it is sown in weakness; it is raised in power:
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It is sown a natural body; it is
raised a spiritual body. There is a natural body, and there is a
spiritual body. |
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And so it is written, The first man
Adam was made a living soul; the last Adam was made a quickening
spirit. |
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Howbeit that was not first which is
spiritual, but that which is natural; and afterward that which is
spiritual. |
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The first man is of the earth,
earthy: the second man is the Lord from heaven. |
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As is the earthy, such are they
also that are earthy: and as is the heavenly, such are they also
that are heavenly. |
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And as we have borne the image of
the earthy, we shall also bear the image of the heavenly.
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Now this I say, brethren, that
flesh and blood cannot inherit the kingdom of God; neither doth
corruption inherit incorruption. |
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Behold, I shew you a mystery; We
shall not all sleep, but we shall all be changed, |
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In a moment, in the twinkling of an
eye, at the last trump: for the trumpet shall sound, and the dead
shall be raised incorruptible, and we shall be changed.
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For this corruptible must put on
incorruption, and this mortal must put on immortality.
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So when this corruptible shall have
put on incorruption, and this mortal shall have put on
immortality, then shall be brought to pass the saying that is
written, Death is swallowed up in victory. |
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O death, where is thy sting? O
grave, where is thy victory? |
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The sting of death is sin; and the
strength of sin is the law. |
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But thanks be to God, which giveth
us the victory through our Lord Jesus Christ. |
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Therefore, my beloved brethren, be
ye stedfast, unmovable, always abounding in the work of the Lord,
forasmuch as ye know that your labour is not in vain in the Lord.
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*"Mrs. Kebbell" is a reference to my great great
grandmother Delilah Kebbell. She was the wife of
Thomas Kebbell, Sr., and the mother
of my great grandfather
Thomas Kebbell, Jr.
*The reference to "Ma" is a reference to Palestine
Shain Boone, my great great grandmother. After her first husband
died, Palestine (or Grandma Pallie, as they called her) married a man
named Boone. Even though Nola's children were Grandma Pallie's
grandchildren, Grandma Pallie was not inclined to help my great
grandfather (Grandma Pallie's son-in-law) raised the children.
Instead, my great great grandmother Delilah Kebbell took on the task.
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